What is the reason for destiny being so unfair?

Destiny, for the sake of clarity, let us call it the “intelligent, just and self-sustaining system” of which we are a part, is always fair. Destiny only seems unfair, because we are not in the know of all our past.

Whatever punishments that the judicial system misses out, is taken care of by this thing we call “Destiny”. Whatever rewards that are missed out for the deserving people of the world, is taken care of too.

Because people fail to see this, due to our ignorance, we see all these bad things being done all around the world. People believe that they are not accountable for their actions.
We only have to look around us and see the unspeakable things that we do to each other, as individuals, as communities, as nations.

The day when people realize this, we will see a drastic reduction in the “unfairness” of destiny.

When we all do all kinds of injustice ranging from harsh words to torture and murder, how can we think and believe that all these will go unrewarded? You take a loan of 1000 you pay an interest of 100; you take a loan of 1000000 and the interest increases proportionately. What people are doing is taking more and more loans indiscriminately. 

What we give will be returned and what we take will be taken from us. So, if we have something missing, it means that we had taken it from someone, sometime in the past. The proof is there for all to see. But, it is the failure of us humans using our power of discrimination that is propagating hatred and vengeance.

This is also the failure of the administrations of the world countries. There must be dedicated time periods everyday in class, all through the impressionable ages, the importance of being loving, kind and being respectful of others. The good parents of this world give their children these inputs at home irrespective of whether they receive it at school or not.

The children at the kindergarten ages up to high school are very impressionable and give much importance to their teachers. One example is that when the brother at home found out the sister is spelling a word wrong, the sister said “My spelling is right. My teacher taught me this way”.

People think that this Life is a single game and those that are affected believe that God is being unfair to them.

Whereas, in fact, this is an unending tournament. We finish this game. And go into another game. And, so it goes on.

The day we understand this and start playing fair, the unfairness that you have mentioned, will start diminishing and we will witness a turnaround in the course of time.
But, this will not happen overnight. We can and only change our lives individually for the better, by changing ourselves. Nature responds to each of us individually.

The intelligence of the Universe is unfathomable. When we let the heart open up with love for one and all, the Universe returns it back many times. Mind you, the changes may not be seen instantly. But, we will have to persist. Believe.

Once we accept destiny, there will not be one day that passes, without our regretting and repenting one or more of our actions. That, is the harbinger of change. a change for the better; a changer of our future destiny.

We see death as an end. But, death is also a beginning… beginning of a new life!

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Here are some inspiring quotes from evolved souls, which means they understood this, explicitly or inherently.

• “If anyone strikes you on the right cheek, turn the other also” -Jesus.
• “An eye for the eye leaves the whole world blind” -M K Gandhi.
• “There are many causes I would die for. There is not a single cause I would kill for” -M K Gandhi.
• "Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that"- Martin Luther King.
• "Nonviolence ... is a sword that heals." - Martin Luther King.
• "Until we stop harming all other living beings, we are still savages" -Thomas Edison,
• “When I feel angry, I want to say something mean, or yell, or hit. But feeling like I want to is not the same as doing it. Feeling can't hurt anyone or get me into trouble, but doing can." ― Cornelia Maude Spelman.
• “We do not need guns and bombs to bring peace, we need love and compassion.” - Mother Teresa.

Quotes ref: GoodReads.com, PeaceDirect.org